“You’ve got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.” – Arthur Ashe My birthday is equivalent to a federal holiday. I said what I said. Don’t debate me on this! Haha! With that said, each passing year, I am always thinking of something new, exciting, uplifting and / or fun to do. It’s not enough to just look over the top on your special day (which I did in this fabulous custom made dress if I do say so myself) but it’s always nice to enjoy the day in…