Shonda Rhimes wrote a book titled “The year of Yes” in which she shared her experience from vowing to say yes to ‘everything’ for a year. I actually need to buy this book because it sounds pretty amazing and everyone, Oprah included, has been raving about it. After hearing her flawless (did I mention how FLAWLESS it was?! It was SO good) TED talk on the topic, I’m even more interested in reading it. Nevertheless, I think I experienced the opposite problem for most of my life. Let me explain: